I am reading Malcolm Gladwell's book, Outlier's right now. And Boy, does that guy ever how to change someone's world view. Each time i finish one of his books, my preception of life shift's.
This time around the book reminded me that everything we come into contact with, whether it is a realationship, a challenging situation. it gives us an oppertunity to choose how we want to look at it, and how we'd like to use the energy of it ( constructively or destructively) to meet our goals.
He call this the ability to "customize" our surrounding to meet our needs. In thats paradigm, we never again have to be the victim of someone else's cjoice's: instead we become the matser of our own design. In order to make this leap, especially when the ecperience drags us down( Ie: bad break up, stress at work) we must remember one thing.
TRUTH IS RELATIVE
